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Beginners to BDSM – Set Your Mode of Kinkiness

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Bondage, Dominance, Discipline, Submission, Sadism & Masochism (S&M), shortly pronounced as BDSM. So, where did you hear the word BDSM for the first time? Most probably from 50 shades of Grey or maybe you were checking out porn and decided to explore the hardcore category. The point here is that Kinks don’t have any limits. Anything goes on no one will object till it’s consensual.

So, the question comes, where does your imagination take you while thinking about BDSM? What are your kinks and how do you plan to move in this role-playing and erotic art of seduction filled with plenty of kinkiness.

Are you one of those having little of no idea about the act? Are you one of those who want to lose to this unique and sacred art of sexing because Sex rules your desires!
Have no shame and get on the game!

Now, first thing first, it is different for different people and may even cross your levels of imaginations. So, let’s dig in and find your levels of explorations…

Spanking the Booty

You can always include the little amount of spanking because it won’t shake your relation, just the butt. It’s a quite common fantasy which won’t hurt anyone. Use your hands and when you become the master of dominance, and then you can always explore with your toys.

Bring in the Words Along with Hair Pulling

Include hair pulling (Don’t pull it out of the scalp) because it’s sexy enough to set things up. Grab their hair and tell them to please you till you tell them to stop. Some aggressive speaking and words from your sextionary will keep you on the right track (of exploring kinkiness). Use words like ‘Jerk’, ‘Slut’, ‘You F*c**r’, ‘Whore’ and you’re ready to go (Consent is necessary).

Tying the Knots

If everything’s looks good, then you’re ready to move a step further by tying her up. Now, it gets tricky here because all you can think about is ropes, tapes, and handcuffs but remember you both are beginners and it can hurt the one with the knots. Use scarfs or a cloth to do so and make sure to not make it too tight. Stopping the circulation or cutting off the skin is damaging enough.

Biting, Blindfold and Role Playing

While you explore each other further, you can always introduce role-playing to spice it up more. Turn it into a sensuous affair by blindfolding him/her and play a little game of yours (The naughty Tales of sex). Restrain yourself or tease them at the edge of orgasm. The point here is of the non-blindfolded person taking control of things and making the blindfolded one surrendering to the sensations.

Some kissing and biting here and there (Especially there) will increase the fire and flair.

Daily Household Stuff Is Enough!

Clothespin, Creams, Scarfs, Oil and much more stuff from the corners of your home can be used to explore your kinkiness. The only question here is, ‘How will you use your imagination to work out with the kinky affairs’? Are you sorted for the evening?

Let’s give you an example! Imagine tying your partner’s hands at the back and punishing them while seeking the pleasures of oral sex.

Are you worked up yet?

Toys to Toil

BDSM has a lot to explore but we will keep it till the starters for now. You can bring in the flogger to experience some pain. The toy does look scary enough to heighten your imagination but the pain isn’t that intense. Though a little more of it can hurt, so keep it simple (But you won’t). Also, using a massager or a vibrator will work wonders in between your pleasures of holy weirdness. So, are you ready to toil now (I bet you are)!

The Last thing…

Before indulging the practice, discuss everything elaborately. Explore your fantasies along with the limits and make sure that everything is consensual. Don’t go too hard during your acts or you may end up hurting each other.

It’s time for some banging, spanking and sex begging!

Don’t oil up your condom or stretch its tip and bum. Also, do use one if you want the exclusive fun.

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